Agreed. A person who I admire told me as I was reeling from a divorce "happiness is the best revenge."And as a very wise person once taught me, the best revenge is to live well.
I wish you all the success in the world as you begin the next chapter in your life.
The sudden change from military to civilian can be very difficult. If you lost buddies...................................
Well, it can be very difficult.
I can not offer you any physical/material support, but if you ever need to reach out to someone who has been thru the journey you are about to embark on feel free to send me as many personal messages here as you need.