I don't know if you have figured it out or not but here is a little information for you.
I am currently 25 years old married twice already and unfortunately through this deployment I will be alone yet again. There is a valid point in mentioning this. While I am here in Afghanistan I have a shared account with my wife and I also have a contingency plan account with 40k and never less in it for major back up plans. I came into the money very early in life invested most and saved the rest. The point is this, neither my first nor second wife knows of this account.
We never have difficulties as I can always reach in take what we need to get by and Charley Mike from there.... My wife the other day messages me through email asking me if I knew about an account that has 30k+ in it. I replied to her yes it was a back up that I have had sense I was 18 and then I went on to ask her how she knew about it. Previously before our marriage she had a bad run in with a bad person and sky rocketed a credit card debt. The banks decided to pull on this and when they couldn't find the money in her account they proceeded to empty my daughter (age 16 months) bank account of the 3grand in there and they took 9k from me to finish the payments needed to get her out of debt.
This raises a ton of questions for me as that account was never affiliated with any one other than me at any time.
This is my guess. A: she found out about the account took the money and made the story up. Doubt it.
B: Government or Federal businesses have the ability to follow like a detective, LEEDS, this person lives here with so and so, she has these accounts, this one is still under her maiden name. Hmmmm.... She is married to so and so, he has another seperate account, hmmm....
This whole story goes along with yours, I am wondering if through tracking the right leads, they found that you are with this woman, she is linked to you and so they found out you have a place with her in Georgia and yet keep the place in your name in Florida. As the event happened in Georgia it was only a matter of sending it easily within the state then sending it to your florida address....
I hope this makes sense I was rattled on mission today and very tired... All I know is, for all I know my every keystroke could by tracked. I just hope that groups like Annonymous and other freedom fighters can one day shut down the long stretching and vandalist eyes of our overstepping government.