That's OK AquaHull, not everyone is cut out for the job. I like to sit back and relax and if I had to be "topic monitors" I would be lousy at it.
We are mostly adults here so we can pretty much take care of ourselves.
Been a Moderator at several sites before. It takes a good bit more than good judgement and patience and can certianly get old fast. Its not always easy to keep a good site on a short leash. This has been one of the more civil sites I have frequented. My hat goes off to the members here as well as the staff for keeping it that way!