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Routinely I inspect my daughters back pack. Not because I don't trust her, but she feels the need to carry a bunch of stuff that makes it weigh 20lbs. That's significant for an 85lb girl.
I usually end up pulling out extra markers, books that she has already read, stuff like that. We shave that pack down to a manageable 10lbs (which I think is still too much but hey...)
Today I made a startling discovery. One of the compartments in her back pack was essentially a Get Home Compartment. First aid kit, flashlight, some gummy snacks and a decent hat for cover and a cheap poncho. School is less than a quarter of a mile so getting home isn't that big of a deal for her, but it floored me to see her prepping. We haven't had any conversations about it and I really haven't "showed" her how to prep. She just knows that daddy usually has a bag of goodies stashed in the house, truck, at work, etc. My wife looked at me and said, "Well, she is YOUR daughter. No denying that!"
So I think her natural desire to prep and the effort she put forward makes it time to show her how it's done. Next few weekends are going to be Prep School for Middle School at our house.
I usually end up pulling out extra markers, books that she has already read, stuff like that. We shave that pack down to a manageable 10lbs (which I think is still too much but hey...)
Today I made a startling discovery. One of the compartments in her back pack was essentially a Get Home Compartment. First aid kit, flashlight, some gummy snacks and a decent hat for cover and a cheap poncho. School is less than a quarter of a mile so getting home isn't that big of a deal for her, but it floored me to see her prepping. We haven't had any conversations about it and I really haven't "showed" her how to prep. She just knows that daddy usually has a bag of goodies stashed in the house, truck, at work, etc. My wife looked at me and said, "Well, she is YOUR daughter. No denying that!"
So I think her natural desire to prep and the effort she put forward makes it time to show her how it's done. Next few weekends are going to be Prep School for Middle School at our house.